“May be, the reason why children who lose someone that means so much to them in their early ages, whether they are family or not, seem like growing up with different mental developments than those who don’t. And once they are old enough to understand things, they get this mixed emotion in their hearts. It’s only because they don’t get the chance to talk about how happy they are to fall in love for the first time, or that time they get good grades, or the one when they get their hearts broken. When things go bad or good, all of those moments they go through, they expect their loved ones to know and be there for them. Yet, they grow up with that failed expectation since their loved ones passed away.
And, in the meantime, people come and go in their lives. They may seem okay but that doesn’t make things easier tho because you know what? They just get used to it since they were kids. But that doesn’t mean you can do fuck you wanna do and leave them as you please. You’ll break what has been broken a long time ago. You’ll break the pieces into smaller pieces. Like for example, one day you asked them to open up to you, and the next day, you acted like nothing happened. They opened up to you dammit. They trusted you. That something they don’t do often. But maybe that’s just them misinterpreting things. I dunno.
Now, tell me. When was the last time you lost someone important to you? How old were you at the time? 12?20?24?Well, I believe it’ll STILL break your hearts, no matter how old you are when it happens. But can you imagine how would you feel if it happened to you when you were way younger than that? Now, go figure it out. And stop judging. Stop making fun of someone’s sensitivity. We are all sensitive in our own ways. And in the end, everything matters.”
I pick this up from my friend, Ratri. She wrote and share it on her insta-story last month. And ya, I do agree with it, with her thought. I plan to write and post her thought since I read it. But ya, it’s never become my priority (at least) for last month. And now, here we are.
Now day, there are more and more “those peoples” who try really hard to become “Judge”. They acted like they know everything, that they were the most right person in this earth, that they can do anything as they please and more than that, that they thought, they deserve to interfere someone else’s life.
Ya, we might see someone else’s life so “bright” outside, but we don’t know how many “dark” she have been through inside. Also, we might see someone else’s life is so messy, but we don’t know, are we can afford that messiness life and still alive if we are in her position.
Okay, what Ratri wrote probably is only one from million cases. But the conclusion from another million cases were same:
“Do not judge. You don’t know what storm I’ve asked her to walk through.”--God
I know probably some of you would say that this issue is nonsense, but ya, whether you thought that it's nonsanse or make a sense,
Come on,
Let’s be human as human being. Let’s spread love and stop hating, let’s stop judging and let’s stop making fun of someone’s sensitivity. Because we are all sensitive in our own ways.
Salam positive vibes!:)
